‘Fear of Exposure’ is a reaction to something via an agenda, via a set of memories, lies behind the eyes, emotional abuse and bias, deception, having a second hidden narrative. A lack of accountability continues because you may have had your empathy and tolerance for emotional abuse work in there favour for some time, they have gained a system in the relationship to smear over facts and truth so they continue past point which might be hard to see if it is constant and subtle (passive aggressive) and only aggressive when ‘containment’ and conformity’ isn’t working.

There are fines and charges for direct and in-direct stalkers who obviously have done something else as well/first. The authorities will investigate the reason for the stalking as well as the stalking.

Stalkers - Part 3 will be live shortly, and it will contain extensive research that will link up the who, what, why, when, how and why third party stalking happens… why it is an extension of control issues, trying to own someone else perception, trying to continue the gaslighting, emotional abuse from a delusional position (reality distortions made from a damaged feedback loop) they want to have on there terms via there personality disorder, there history, there assumptions of what is accessible (your mind, relationship via labels and terms).

Stalkers - Part 2 - Sample - Emotional abusers are good at covering up, blame-shifting away D.A.R.V.O. because it is an internal system they have to avoid accountability; it will be seen on the external when matters get out of there control. The secondary evidence will always link back to the primary evidence. Their agenda to cover up art at any cost and never respect boundaries is an extension of what agenda or victim knows about that others will not understand without experience and education. Dealing with covert types means hiring flying monkeys and agents and influencing others to contain truth and facts.

All of it is evidence; document everything… surprise victims at places they shouldn’t be, situations without confirmation, flowers, photographs, document cards, letters, texts, calls from people who shouldn’t acting on behalf of someone, divides in work, relationships, families, the insidious control issues and fear of exposure will harm to cover up what will effect he public image and los of control leading to accountability and shame back on the emotional abuser.

At a later date, in part 3 - Learn to gain closure and accountability and put back the table from third-party stalkers who know very little of self-awareness, empathy, and consideration. Use a method called ‘Fact Checking’.

Everything else must happen first, which is your safety, head space for your mental health, and knowing you can speak up about what goes on behind closed doors. The law is not what people first think about the more ‘subtle hiding forms of abuse'… what is hiding in plain sight.’

For example, Coercive control has a design to hide at any cost, any kind of subtle influence to not be seen in public. But comes from deep, hidden insecurities, not confidence, which is a cover-up, hence why emotional abusers are always trying to cover up and use others. They learned to do it for a reason, and it is always at the expense of others… or something else would be happening.

What might have been normalised over time is toxic; most of the time, it isn’t seen as that until a break is made. If the break is not respected, if third-party abuse or third-party stalking happens, the authorities have a case. No matter the label, relationship, agenda, or influence to cover up, blame-shift + blame-the victim (very common and the extension). Blame-shifters smear in a facade, they never see themselves as the one who creates the drama (covert or overt) or control issues (covert or overt).

If you spot an influencing opinion about someone happening to others in a conversation, it will happen to you, so be prepared for it. A gossiping, smearing mind has an age, processes everyone the same way, with a bias, with a specific emotional intelligence and system, or lack of. It might be hard to see the full spectrum of a person if they have false self-control for public consumption.

So what does that mean for stalker education? Answer: Your perception is not their perception; your perception might be assuming more than you think about the person who does not take ‘no’ for an answer or refuses to be accountable over something or many matters dismissed.

Human rights are a priority; no one is allowed to continue their controlling deceptive abuse, attempting to own someone else’s perception in various forms. Their control issues were most likely experienced in their childhood via suppression or not accountability or both. Bad role modelling, ACE, but something made the person copy the same abuse cycle rather than break the chain the project what they have inside, what they assume is acceptable, what they think is reality.. when reality it is a generic ‘reality distortion’. Anyone who doesn’t respect boundaries… it is a major red flag. If you are the victim and made out to be the abuser when you are trying to leave, that means the gaslighting has been ‘double downed’ and the control issues are trying to get everything back to their position on their terms.

Use the links to protect your boundaries from covert abuse from any distance… in any circle, any relationship, always get a second opinion to check your reality and someone’s behaviour if they turn up by surprise.

Confusion: Guilt is felt because it was employed over time. What will be seen later is an ego issue; try to imagine a child looking down at dolls and a doll house, the strings are loose, not seen at first, the ego is positioned where the child head is looking over the game with people taking part. The mindset remains stuck there for a reason.