Baiting
To gain supply and attention via loving bombing or to provoke, chip and poke for stimulation.
Attention-seeking will have terms, conditions, and neuroticism due to control issues. The covert abuse starts, followed by making you look like the abuser.
Warning: this is not the behaviour of a balanced person; it is a personality disorder and childhood trauma causing the wants and needs. Emotional games.
Always seek professional advice when baiting is triggered.