Removing The Mask
Summary: The empath has a truth bias to overcome; the disruptive manipulator has to wear a mask.
There are a number of ways to remove a disruptive person's personality mask designed for public consumption. The best way is to allow them to expose themselves and record the data. The bias, justifications, blame-shifting, blame the victim, aggression, passive-aggressive agenda may forget to keep wearing the mask, or step outside the facade.
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Justification goes deep, the mask is thin, patterned behaviour without change has a history, documenting contradiction, double standards as well as the main issue is key.
A hiding person in an adults body maybe 0.5 of a person trying to project 1.5 of a person rather than focus on a grounded position with accountability.
The professional victim card, defence mechanism, its fear of exposure, fear of the truth they avoid at the expense of others.
The hurt cycle, abuse cycle, generic precursor, zero empathy for others, zero self-awareness, and zero understanding of cause and effect have compensating behaviour to mask the agenda and survival approach.
Education stopped a long time ago, so education is used to draw out the disruptor by everyone else being educated.
It takes two people to make a lie exist.
If a person is capable of irreparable damage in their life and then covers it up, they may do the same to others and try to cover it up so accountability isn't processed.
Gaslighting turns to triangulation, gossip turns to smear, and the people they speak of when not present may be used when a cover-up is required.
The uneducated snake pit will get out of control.
When a person doesn't know how to fix their own mess, what happens next?
The compensating behaviour used to mask and hide what goes on behind closed doors has to justify on a bigger scale, mistakes will be made.
A comfort zone of cohesive control will expose a person's agenda by simply not expanding to cover up beyond a small space.
You can fool some people some of the time, not everyone all of the time.
Fear of exposure on a bigger scale requires more justification, more conditioning, more victim card, more abuse, more of everything. The larger facade requires 24/7 management, and the unbalanced director can't keep up.
Bundy couldn't keep up; accountability will grow bigger and bigger, and the lie will get bigger and bigger.
The human mind prefers balance; the game gets too big.
The comfort zone of controlling others has its limit, if they want a stage, give them
A bigger stage and document the mask slipping.
What does fear of exposure look like? What do defence mechanisms or coping mechanisms look like?
Someone is never hiding 'nothing' with a fuss; they are hiding something, and they need people to ‘fit the narrative’ that hides what they may have been doing for a long time instead of doing what others do.
A Trickster is always judging everyone, making unhealthy comparisons, and using people without making it look that way; their childhood is the hiding justification to continue what was wrong.
After a while, those educated will see right through the agenda; those who chose not to be educated may be used.
What is the clear answer?
Education exposes the disruptors' masks from across the street. Walk on the other side. Prevention is the greatest cure. Either you are focusing on quality time with quality people, or you are playing catch-up in a truck bond or a facade. What is unhealthy for one is unhealthy for two.
