Pre-Session Insight Part 2

Summary: Part 2. If you don’t know a smear is coming, think about it this way, a lack of balance when using someone in a relationship doesn’t just disappear over night, they see the abuse and damage to your mental and physical health, is double down due to the unhealthy compassion, losing creates further dram to blameshift as shame is not in the system, its avoided. Abuse and blame shift have been a trick in their life to allow hiding in front of non-educated, empathetic people who care. If you think positively and help, at first, knowing the dark side of emotional abuse and development issues, it's a new book of education, not learning.

Covert narcissists can, to a point, trick professionals due to coverup and blame shift, but not for long; what is important to know is people may never spot what is carefully hidden behind closed doors, but always gain professional advice.

“Education will help people from getting people into these relationships in the first place.”

“Don’t let them in… in the first place.”

“Stop falling for it; charm and victimhood are tricks.”

Once you know what you are dealing with, your mind can get closure and start to heal fully… Males are more overt; females are more covert. Know how they think, as they will cause a lot of damage even if they appear fragile and insecure.

Learn to spot a pathological lair fetched from their own actions and statements to spot the gaslighting.