Everything is Connected
Summary: The kicker. Each subject in psychology is linked. From birth to death and everything in between.
As part of my psychology education, I’ve looked at experiments on humans to find the truth about human behaviour and read and listened to audiobooks only to find truth and deception have strange relationships. Those who live with truth say and do one thing on one pathway, and those who filter out truth do something else but try to appear as if they are not. This is what throws people off at first. They put a certain amount of energy into being fake and have their own damaging code not usually disclosed on the nose.
It means even with a lack of Self-Awareness, there is an awareness but a strange stimulation that motivates, and it can’t be 100% hidden. Ted Bundy was eventually found out; see the Criminal Profiling page to show he was still trying to manipulate value to his actions in the final hours. Dark to say the least and given the level of detachment and fantasy he was seeking a sort of validation or why charm to deceive, why hurt others.
“Hurt is a powerful motivator to some, and like garlic to vampires with others.”
Research: Two studies uncovered statements that gave away actions. No names have been used; the victim is now protected, and no details are discussed beyond facts.
One comment spoke at an adult age (not necessarily an adult) linked up to their childhood behaviour.
“There is no such thing as a bad kid.”
That person was kicked out of a school age 11-12 for abusive, aggressive behaviour with a marked comment ‘has a problem with authority’ is up for a child, sibling and pregnant woman abuse.
The abused child was age six when the abuse started and was normalised. Children are meant to be protected by their parents, not if a covertly controlling parent is amoral or has a personality disorder with cohesive behaviour. The dots were not joined at first.
A second case study, “I am a good mother, aren’t I?” and “You did have a good upbringing, didn’t you?”.
The person receiving the repeated comments in adult life on a weekly or biweekly situation had no memory of their childhood before the Dissociative Amnesia was slowly being removed—only influence and attention-seeking filled the relationship due to a need to be camouflaged.
When they were exposed, a smear campaign started to cover up the gaslighting. Fraud, manipulation, coercive control, and child abuse fuel a perception, all from small comments and actions that blew up to expose a huge list of amoral choices. What is odd is odd, what is too little is too little, and what is too much is always too much. Coincidence is noted if experience and education can expose what is hiding in plain sight.
Cultures should always be reviewed; if change is not present, people might be monitored with influence, trying to keep matters strictly under control and done with practice as Manipulators were born from childhood, unfortunately.
The mind offers truth when it feels safe to do so. Anyone who may be sensing unusual comments and behaviour must speak to a professional; they can join the studied elements to paint a true picture of events with an insight outside a facade.
