Signs Of People Who Have Been Abused

Emotional, verbal and physical abuse are all different.

So is covert and overt abuse.

98% of the time, it will come from a person who had a certain childhood, so what was learned is projected without processing a past of trauma repeating the cycle.

The abuse style is linked to what was experienced earlier in life.

Some people become products of the childhood environment, and some do not. If feedback is seen as criticism, take note.

Covert abuse is acknowledged by the authorities; do speak to a professional.

If you spot someone is trapped or isolated in a marriage or relationship and that person is exhausted, pay attention. Their background processing maybe on overdrive to cope with a lack of empathy and a hidden cogative bias not seen in public.

The reason for isolating a partner is to prevent activation and to keep a facade comfortable for the person with the disorder—a control issue due to childhood experiences.

Watch out for certain types of humour, put-downs, chips, and pokes, trying to steer attention in a certain direction as a victim to gain enmeshment to cover up emotional abuse with love bombing.